Date: 2018-03-12 14:10
If you ask her out too soon, she is going to put up her defenses and will become reluctant. There’s a good chance she will say no.
The Turks had achieved one objective they had tied down the enemy. The Chinese suffered heavy casualties trying repeatedly to take the Turkish position, and all their attacks were repelled. Finally, Yazici, understanding that the brigade was being encircled by the numerically superior Chinese, ordered withdrawal.
You want to slowly increase the amount of time you and your ex girlfriend speak. Once you are able to make her smile or laugh she should be open to hear more from you.
All this took a great toll on my health and combined with an urinal infection I developed working in humid conditions I lost 66 kg. Things got worse when I ended in an anaphylactic shock due to an alergy to a certain drug prescribed for my condition. She found out from a doctor friend and stayed the whole night with me until I was back on my feet again.
So, work on understanding yourself and learn to trust yourself. Getting therapy or joining a support group (sex addicts, alcohol anonymous, anger management etc.) is a great way to do that.
I would recommend you following through with no contact to give her the time she needs to let go of any negative emotions of you and your ex. At the same time, focus on picking yourself up from the hurt you feel because she's not going to come back into your life if you're an emotional mess. Work on yourself and after following the no contact rule , if the decision to win her back remains the same, you could initiate contact once more with her.
Each stage will have objectives for you to accomplish. Some of these objectives will be optional. The optional objectives are not important to win her back permanently, but they definitely help in the process and they will increase your chances significantly.
If she replies you should speak to her but don’t try to rebuild attraction or make her laugh yet. Just end the conversation on a light note and make her feel good about it.
After the high and the alcohol passed, and i came to my senses, i pulled away and took a nap for about an hour or two but i kept getting woken up by her cuddling me and holding my hand and resting on my shoulder and then woke up to her pulling me on top of her so i could sleep more comfortably while she caressed me.